A letter to my sister
Each of us is a separate individual, we have our own thought. You can't impose your thought to others when they are not willing to. Even to the kids, they do their own thinking. Things as simple as they like ice-cream, they don't like vegetable, spicy food etc etc. These are their thought. Parents will try their best to INFLUENCE/ADVISE them to change their thought, no way that the parents can impose their thought to their children. However, exceptional comes when there are rewards and punishment to it. For example, parents would say to a kid, if you finished up your meal properly, i will bring you to the playground, OR if you are not eating them, i will refrain you from playing with your toys. Then the kids will reconsider of what's in their mind, judging the pros and cons to their action whether to go along with their thoughts or simply listening to the parents. It is the same with us. We are adults now. I do whatever i want whenever i want. If i don't, you can&